“What matters most is not 'what' you are, but 'who' you are.”
ADOPTION QUOTES
Dr. DaShanne Stokes is a sociologist, author, public intellectual, and late-discovery adoptee whose public writing examines adoption, adoptee rights, identity, family, equality, and the intersections of race and sexuality. Drawing on his own experience of discovering at age 20 that he was adopted, as well as his perspective as a sociologist and educator, Dr. Stokes writes about the lifelong social and personal implications of adoption and the importance of adoptees' ability to know their origins, family history, and identity.
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Adoptee Experience
“Discovering that I was adopted redefined my entire world, but it taught me that who you are doesn't change.”
Family & Relationships
“Blood can help make family, but family often transcends blood.”
“People think that LGBTs adopting children will hurt them , but it's not being in loving homes that hurts children most.”
Adoptee Rights & Open Records
“If the system were designed to protect adoptees, why do so many have to fight for their rights?”
“Adoptees deserve open records because deception and partial truths do not set us free.”
“Laws forbidding adoptees from accessing their original birth certificates are outdated and need to be changed today.”
“Being denied their original birth certificates isn't just a problem for adoptees. It's a social problem, requiring social change.”
Social Justice & Equality
“It's illegal to deny people their records due to race or gender. Adoptees deserve the same rights and protections.”
“Being denied their original birth certificates isn't just a problem for adoptees. It's a social problem, requiring social change.”
“Adoptee rights are everyone's rights, and they deserve to be protected.”
Dr. DaShanne Stokes is a sociologist, author, public intellectual, and late-discovery adoptee whose public writing examines adoption, adoptee rights, identity, family, equality, civil rights, race, sexuality, and social institutions. In 1998, shortly after turning 20, Dr. Stokes accidentally discovered that he had been adopted. The discovery radically changed his understanding of his family, ancestry, culture, and identity and led him to confront the barriers adoptees can face when seeking information about their origins, including access to original birth certificates and birth-family records. His experience became an important foundation for his public writing and advocacy concerning late-discovery adoption, adoptee rights, and the right to know one's origins.
Dr. Stokes has written extensively for public audiences about adoption, adoptee rights, foster care, and the ways adoption intersects with broader questions of race, sexuality, religion, identity, and equality. His writing has appeared in The Huffington Post, The Advocate, and Adoption Today, addressing subjects including late-discovery adoption, access to original birth records, LGBT adoption, foster care, religious freedom, race and adoption, and the meaning of family and identity. His work brings together firsthand experience as a late-discovery adoptee with the perspective of a sociologist and educator, approaching adoption and adoptee rights as public issues involving identity, family, dignity, institutions, and social equality.
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